Sometimes when you're beginning anew, it helps to consult pages from the past.
Following are excerpts from Stephen Covey's "Seven Habits of Highly Successful People," which was first published in 1989. The excerpts are not only applicable today but also quite telling about how much work remains to be done defining and applying leadership.
In many ways, Covey's original a-ha moments are just now beginning to play out on a wide scale. Leaders, companies and boards, beware. Keep ignoring these basics and be prepared to face the consequences.
"...If I try to use human influence strategies and tactics of how to get other people to do what I want, to work better, to be more motivated, to like me and each other -- while my character is fundamentally flawed, marked by duplicity and insincerity -- then in the long run, I cannot be successful. My duplicity will breed distrust, and everything I do -- even using so called human relations techniques -- will be perceived as manipulative. It simply makes no difference how good the rhetoric is or even how good the intentions are, if there is little or no trust, there is no foundation for permanent success. Only basic goodness gives life to technique.
To focus on technique is like cramming your way through school. You sometimes get by, perhaps even get good grades, but if you don't pay the price day in and day out, you never achieve true mastery of the subjects you study or develop an educated mind...
Many people with secondary greatness, that is, social recognition for their talents, lack primary greatness or goodness in their character. Sooner or later, you'll see this in every long-term relationship they have. It is character that communicates most eloquently. Then there are situations where people have character but lack communication skills and that affects relationships as well. But the effects are secondary.
...What we are communicates far more eloquently than anything we say or do. We all know it. There are people we trust absolutely because we know their character. Whether they're eloquent or not, whether they have human relations techniques or not, we trust them and work successfully with them.
In the words of William George Jordan, "Into the hands of every individual is given marvelous power for good or evil -- the silent, unconscious, unseen influence of his (or her) life. This is simply the constant radiation of what man (or woman) really is, not what he (or she) pretends to be."
Fast forward to today. Try applying this timeless summary to your own behavior and spheres of influence. If that's too difficult, then use these words as criteria to evaluate the next leadership crisis that lands in the news. Chances are the aforementioned qualities will be either on full display or entirely absent.
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